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Today I had the privilege of spending several hours with some of my best girlfriends from college. Like always, today was a true encouragement and good for me in so many ways. These girls and I are in similar places in life, so it's neat to trade stories, hearing about each other's lives, jobs, and families. I always gain insight and benefit from hearing their perspectives on things.

We laughed a lot, listened a lot, and learned a lot. One thing that stuck out to me from our conversation today was the importance of speaking well of our husbands and building them up. Society/culture teaches that it's cool for women to bash their husbands, making fun of them and laughing at their "stupidity." That's the opposite of what the Bible teaches and what we are called to do as Christians. We need to encourage our husbands, speaking well of them and lifting them up. This was a healthy reminder to me to always be aware of my words - even ones that I mean in jest - and the effects that they have.

Just thought I would share one little piece of our very long, very sweet time together!

Thankful for these girls and the love and wisdom God gives me through them.

(Image: A photo from college of some of the ladies and I - Rachel, we missed you!)

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  1. rootedinloveMay 22, 2010 at 8:55 PM

    :) Im so thankful for you. It was such a wonderful land needed time!! Love you!

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